Assessing Marriage

Artist: Ardis Huges. For the U.S. War Bonds Committee. 1944.
Artist: Ardis Huges. For the U.S. War Bonds Committee. 1944.

Where are you with your marriage? It’s a hard question because a marriage is a moving target. It involves two people and often a whole family. The persons involved are a mix of attitudes, emotions, and actions that aren’t easily fixed. And just as important is the question, “To what should I be comparing my marriage?”

The people at Family Life Today have very simple and helpful resources on marriage and parenting. Some of their articles are particularly good and very worthy of your time. One of my favorite is from founder Dennis Rainey. It’s called Forty Lessons from Forty Years of Marriage. It’s a bit longer (he is, after all, distilling lessons from 40 years of marriage) but would fit that category of “worthy of your time”. If you have a vacation or some other disposable time coming up, print yourself a copy and see if it can’t could spur some reflection on your own marriage.

Check it out. It may help you know better where you are and certainly where you would like to be.

Forty Lessons from Forty Years of Marriage

Scotty Anderson
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Scotty Anderson
Assistant Pastor to Families & Youth Scotty is a native of Santa Anna, Texas. He graduated from the United States Air Force Academy in 1994 and completed his Masters of Divinity at Greenville Presbyterian Theological Seminary in 2005. Scotty’s Air Force service of eleven years included time as a Security Forces Officer protecting nuclear weapons and also instructing at Officer Training School before being called into pastoral ministry. He and his wife Kerry are parents of three children, Clayton, Avery, and Grace.